A Caregiver’s Journey Toward Healing
64 years old | Seattle, Washington | Social Worker
For most of her life, Margaret Kramer has cared for others. A social worker for 25 years, she supported older adults and people with disabilities, cared for her father through dementia, became a foster parent, and adopted two sons. She also volunteers at a veterinary clinic that provides free care to pets whose owners have limited incomes.
When a severely torn tendon in her right shoulder caused chronic pain and limited the use of her dominant arm, Margaret found herself needing help. The injury disrupted her sleep and made lifting, exercising, practicing yoga, and completing everyday activities difficult. She was especially concerned about losing more mobility and independence.
Margaret’s surgeon recommended reconstructing her shoulder using donated Achilles tendon tissue. At first, she hesitated. She understood that the graft represented another person and a family who had experienced loss. Knowing she could acknowledge the donation and express her gratitude helped her feel more comfortable moving forward.
Although her recovery is still underway, Margaret is encouraged by her progress. While wearing a sling and participating in physical therapy, she was already able to raise her arm higher than she could before surgery.
She now looks forward to returning to yoga, drawing, writing, volunteering, traveling, and working part time as a social worker. Already registered as an organ donor, Margaret also hopes sharing her experience will encourage others to consider organ and tissue donation.
Most of all, Margaret is grateful to her donor and the donor’s family. She hopes they find comfort in knowing their decision made a meaningful difference in her life.
“I feel honored and blessed. I already say thank you each day for this gift.”
